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Educating Shelly: The Journey of a Lifetime

At 55 years old, I’ve decided to take on a challenge that many might shy away from: pursuing a BSc Honours in Psychology with Counselling. It’s been 35 years since I last set foot in a classroom as a student, but I’m here to prove that it’s never too late to follow your passions and dreams. This is my story, and I hope it inspires others to embark on their own educational journeys, no matter their age.

The Decision to Return to Education

The decision to return to education wasn’t one I made lightly. Life has a way of pulling you in different directions—careers, family, personal commitments—but the desire to understand the human mind and to help others has always been a quiet undercurrent in my life. Psychology has fascinated me for as long as I can remember, and counselling felt like a natural extension of that interest. When the opportunity arose to pursue a degree, I knew it was time to take the plunge.

Overcoming the Fear of the Unknown

I won’t lie—returning to study after 35 years was daunting. The world of academia has changed so much since I was last a student. Technology has transformed how we learn, and the sheer volume of information can be overwhelming. But if there’s one thing life has taught me, it’s that fear is often the greatest obstacle to achieving our goals. Instead of letting it hold me back, I embraced it as part of the process. Every challenge, every unknown, is an opportunity to grow.

Finding My Rhythm

The first few weeks were a whirlwind of adjusting to new routines, brushing up on study skills, and learning to balance coursework with the other demands of life. But slowly, I found my rhythm. I realized that learning is like riding a bike—you may wobble at first, but once you get going, it becomes second nature. My age, rather than being a hindrance, has given me a unique perspective. I bring life experiences to my studies that younger students might not yet have, and that enriches the learning process.

The Joy of Learning

One of the most rewarding aspects of this journey has been rediscovering the joy of learning. There’s something incredibly satisfying about delving into a subject that you’re passionate about. Each lecture, each reading, brings me closer to understanding the intricacies of the human mind and how I can use that knowledge to help others. The field of psychology is vast, and the more I learn, the more excited I am about the possibilities.

The Support System

Of course, none of this would be possible without a solid support system. My family and friends have been my biggest cheerleaders, encouraging me on the days when self-doubt creeps in. I’ve also found a new community in my fellow students and lecturers, who have welcomed me with open arms. It’s a reminder that learning is not just an individual pursuit, but a shared experience.

Looking Ahead

As I move forward in my studies, I’m excited about what the future holds. This degree is not just about academic achievement; it’s about personal growth, fulfillment, and the desire to make a difference in the world. Whether I end up working directly in counselling or using my knowledge in other ways, I know that this journey will have been worth every moment.

To anyone out there who is thinking about returning to education or pursuing a long-held dream, I say this: Go for it. Age is just a number, and passion knows no bounds. The road may be challenging, but the rewards are immeasurable.

Conclusion

This blog is just the beginning of my journey. I’ll be sharing my experiences, insights, and tips for fellow mature students along the way. I hope you’ll join me as I navigate the ups and downs of university life, proving that it’s never too late to follow your passions and dreams.

Here’s to new beginnings, lifelong learning, and the pursuit of knowledge. Let’s make this journey one to remember!

— Shelly